New Testimonial Page for Mistress Toza Scarlet

In changing my website, most of my old testimonials and stories were lost but I’ve managed to salvage some of them to put on a new page on this blog.  It includes a brand new one from a new client who’s cheeky and great to Domme. You can read it here.

My website has also had a revamp and I’ve been busy rewriting some of it.  Like any good Mistress I’m always trying new things and always evolving so I like to do regular site updates to reflect that.

The contact form has gone too. From now on, prospective slaves must write to me in their own words. Yes, really. It’s too easy, you see, to sit ticking boxes late at night and I’m getting bored with investing my precious time to reply to emails …. to men who’ve no intention of sessioning.

I’m still relishing the peace and quiet as a result of taking my phone number down so I’m filtering down even more by insisting on email only.  Committed clients are happy to email.  I mean come on, you’re putting your health, your emotions, your life, even, at my mercy. Some dialogue before we speak on the phone is a good idea, is it not?

I know it’s sometimes difficult to think what to write so because I’m such a kind, thoughtful Mistress, I’ve given a few pointers on the contact page to help. You can’t say fairer than that.

Look forward to hearing from you.

X

Lady Toza Scarlet, Leeds and Manchester Mistress and Dominatrix.

LUXE Femdom Day

LUXE – where the ladies dominate. Ah, if only life were like that all the time.

No photos from LUXE but here I am having fun torturing nipples at Mistress Davina’s Chambers of Deprivation in Leeds

So I got there with my favourite slave and close friend in tow. I placed his collar round his neck, clipped the lead onto it and informed him that he was 100% under my control for the day. If I wanted a drink, he’d fetch it for me. If I wanted food, he’d bring that for me too. If I wanted my feet massaging, he was to jump to it. He was to go nowhere without my permission.  All this, I delivered in a low, matter of fact tone.
He understood.
He nodded.
He was very contented.

He bought me a drink and we relaxed in the comfortable seating area. At LUXE, the leather sofas are for the ladies only. The male slaves have to sit on the floor. Thus arranged, he massaged my feet and I rang a bell. No less than three houseboys came to see what I needed – chocolates, obviously. How well-trained and how pleasant they were (the houseboys, that is, not the chocolates). On the recommendation of the houseboy bearing the chocolates, I took the biggest one and indulged in a bit of gastro porn, licking it and swirling the chocolatiness around my tongue and saying ‘mmmm’.

On the floor, slave continued to massage…..

Then the electro games in the jacuzzi room were announced and I volunteered slave and myself to have a go. A little cat collar was wrapped round his scrotum and an electrode attached to the metal buckle. I was given a piece of curled wire to move around a buzz wire which was artistically bent into a cock and balls shape. Whenever the two wires made contact, slave’s scrotum would get zapped and he would yelp a lot.

Bearing this in mind, I was as clumsy as possible, zapping and buzzing my way along the wire, causing him to yelp and dance around. This was highly amusing so we cranked up the current. The yelps became howls and the dancing became more energetic until it was time to release him and give someone else a go.

Friday Feel Good Feeling

Aaahhh….

Bath.
Hairwash.
Glass of red wine.
Feet up.

Had some fabulously sadistic sessions with some lovely boys this month.

I have thoroughly gorged myself on some great CBT and a lot of heavy duty control and denial *wink*  You know what I’m talking about. If you don’t, perhaps you should come along and find out…..

I’m really looking forward to LUXE, Femdom event, on Sunday. What a great end to April.

Bye for now and thanks for dropping  by.

Lady Toza

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Lady Toza Scarlet, Mistress & Dominatrix in Manchester & Leeds.

What do I get out of being a Mistress?

What a great week!

Clients who are rewarding really bring a bounce to my step. Talking of bouncing, I often bounce the toes of my thigh high stiletto boots off a strategically-placed scrotum but that’s for another blog.

No, what I wanted to talk about today was the way a really good session makes me feel. I like to ask my clients after the session, how they are feeling and sometimes they ask me which makes me feel good because this is a two way thing, is it not?

So how I feel after a good session varies according to how the session was. The very intense, psychodrama, Dominance and submission sessions leave me drained and happy; satisfied but zonked. After the less intense, more CP oriented sessions, I feel chirpy and invigorated. Role play sessions? Well they’re a heap of fun and they vary in intensity.  I can feel knackered or jolly, depending on what we’ve been up to.

The Manchester Dungeon – Farewell

As the title says – farewell to the Manchester Dungeon.

Mistress Julia Pink has decided to close the doors for good and it happens today.

I started my Pro-Domming career there under the guidance of the indomitable Julia Pink.  She plunged me in at the deep end. Literally. My first client wanted strapon.

A little word about copyright.

I write and design  my own website.

This explains why it’s sometimes in rag order. I am human, I fuck up sometimes.

The good news is that you can be sure that all content, down the tiniest little full stop is my own work. I don’t have any web slaves scribbling away for me, doing the SEO work and arranging text and pictures while I polish my toenails. I work completely independently because I like to be in control and because I enjoy having the freedom to express myself and make changes whenever I like.

It’s a lot of work and sometimes a bit of a ball ache. Luckily I haven’t got any balls.  You lot have though and thank you so much to those of you who bring them to me for slapping, kicking, tying up and general fun-torture. That’s just great.

I’m wandering off track … where was I? Oh yes. Copyright. SO: given that I have put a lot of effort into writing and designing my own website, what a bummer it is when another website takes MY photographs and MY text and go creating a profile in MY name on an escort magazine site which is affiliated to a vanilla classified ads site (not naming any names but said classified ads site is not up my street).

And what a bore when I have to explain to the perplexed sounding gentleman who called me for a massage, that I don’t do massage, nor do I do any of that other stuff he wants either. And what a bore to deal with so many frustrating emails and the phone call from the sulky, defensive sounding employee from the site who stole my content.

So to make it absolutely clear – the content on my site is mine and if anybody else steals it, I’ll come round and knock your block off and laugh like a witch while I’m doing it.

Administering a good thrashing the other day perked me up though so if you’d like to book a session of torment, erotic domination or a good old fashioned spanking from Lady Toza Scarlet, Leeds & Manchester Mistress, read my website and send me an email or fill out the contact form.

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Contacting Mistress Toza Scarlet, Dominatrix.

Okaaay …. I’ve taken my phone number off my website so if you wish to session with me, I’m only taking written enquiries. Whoop, whoop, whoop!

I’m a busy, busy, busy woman. I write, I go to the gym, I watch films, I read, I visit museums, I travel. And of course, I hold Mistress/Dominatrix sessions with men who love to be dominated.

In short, I lead a full and interesting life. Time spent answering wanky calls, however brief (I hang up silently and swiftly), could be spent dreaming up new ways to control and play with the minds and bodies of the fabulous men who come to me for sessions. Makes sense, no?

Being a kind-hearted (snigger) Mistress, I’m giving clients the choice – you can either fill in the contact form or send an email. Best handwriting, mind *wags finger*.

If you’ve sessioned with me before, then I’m happy for you to phone.

Lady Toza Scarlet, Mistress & Dominatrix in Leeds & Manchester.

Sissy, t-girl, Cross Dressing Day in Leeds. Feb 26th.

The title says it all.

Boots, Heels, Shoes ....

To celebrate the coming of spring (and just because we feel like it) Mistress Davina and I will be holding a sissy day at the Leeds Chambers of Deprivation on Feb 26th. We’ll be opening the doors at 1pm.

A grand opportunity if you’ve ever wanted to have a go a cross-dressing or forced sissification, or if you’re a mad keen t-girl or sissy to begin with and want a fun, sparkly day day in your best frock.

You can bring your own clothes to change into or else you are welcome to choose from the wide range of silky, sumptuous cross-dressing attire that Mistress Davina has in her Leeds Chambers of Deprivation.We also have wigs and many, many boots and shoes because we know how much you sissies love heels.

Pain, Ecstasy or Both?

As a Mistress, I know that I can induce pleasurable pain.  Nipple torture, cock and ball torture, spanking, corporal punishment – they all hurt. And they all feel good.  Of course, for a true submissive, enduring the pain in order to please me will be enough to bring him pleasure.

But then there are the masochists who can be brought further and further along the path of pain. I start slowly, then push some more

Lady Toza Scarlet – Mistress of the Month

I’m very proud to announce that for the month of February, I am Mistress of the Month on the UK Mistress-Directory. There’s a piccy of me next to the bondage wheel at Mistress Davina’s chambers in Leeds and a wee interview to read.

Some of the questions in the interview were thought-provoking so I may use them as blog-fodder in the next few weeks.

Lady Toza Scarlet in the UK Mistress-Directory.

Lady Toza Scarlet, Mistress & Dominatrix in Leeds & Manchester.